Sunday, April 8, 2012

Forgive- Chapter Ten

When I was in High School I had a boyfriend throughout my senior year. After we broke up, he began dating his best friend. Throughout the relationship I thought it was strange that him and this other girl were so close however, I trusted that they were just friends. After we broke up he told me he still had feelings for me and that there was a possibility of getting back together in the future. I mentioned his best friend to him and he promised that he had no feelings for her. A few days later we were at the same party, and I found him in the backyard with her. I approached him about it, and ended up punching him in the face. At the time, I was devastated. I felt confused and betrayed. Did he have feelings for her throughout our whole relationship?  Normally I try to talk things out and have good conflict management skills, but I really did feel like he deserve the hit. Although this is not something that bothers me now, it was very heartbreaking at the time. Luckily, this is the only betrayal I have ever had in my life. Years have passed and this situation no longer bothers me. I have no anger or hatred towards this person, because the situation does not matter to me anymore. It's weird how something that mattered so much at one point in time, can have little importance later on in life. 

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