In dealing with conflict, I find myself leaning towards the relationship-centered orientation. I believe that I prefer this type of orientation because it allows me to see the "we" in an argument. I try my best to satisfy my needs, while respecting the other person's as well.
When it comes to communication behavior, I am definitely assertive. Abigail and Cahn describe assertive communication as, "the ability to speak up for one's interests, concerns, or rights in a way that does not interfere with the interests or infringes on the rights of others"(53). I always take charge of a situation and voice my opinions, but I make sure to do so in a way that does not offend the other person involved. I am usually satisfied with the outcome of a situation while using this orientation because typically everyone’s needs are met.
The other two orientations include the other-centered orientation and the self-centered orientation. I feel like neither of these orientations apply to me and that I typically stick with relationship-centered orientation. I may be more willing to compromise with a person I am closer to such as a family member or my boyfriend, but I try my best to show respect and come up with an outcome to satisfy both me and the other person involved.
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