Conflict is Inevitable

Conflict is inevitable. I believe that conflict is an inborn trait, something that is instinctive for people even at a young age. Once a person starts to develop their own thoughts and opinions, it is only natural for them to have conflict with those with opposing views. Even young children come across conflict before they are able to speak, becoming fussy or throwing temper tantrums when they do not get their way. It is human nature to have conflicts in interpersonal relationships.

I actually believe that conflict is valuable in a relationship. The main reason why my past relationships hadn’t worked out was because we argued too much and couldn’t come up with solutions to our problems. Conflict is natural and is going to happen no matter how hard you try to avoid it. In my opinion, conflict is a good way to test the strength of a relationship. If someone is willing to work with me through problems, I know they are someone I want to be in my life. I would not want to have a relationship with someone who wasn’t willing to communicate.